I just finished a book that shall not be named.* It’s a work of nonfiction, published relatively recently, and enjoying a certain amount of popularity. In it, the author expresses opinions on various subjects. While I agreed with many of these opinions, I disagreed with others. Despite my disgruntlement with some of its content, I read the book cover to...
And so (as I mentioned a few days ago), while the title of Mark Manson’s The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck seems to imply that we should coolly brush off the entire world and all its sh*t and not care about a single thing—in actuality, Manson’s thesis is that we should carefully choose what to care about and...
Which of these photos, in your opinion, best represents happiness? The daisies or the rainbows? Okay, I admit it—this is a trick question (and a silly one, at that). According to Mark Manson in his book The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, neither is a good representation of happiness. Why not? “Because happiness requires struggle. It grows from...
Darn and dang it all, if it hasn’t happened again! Once again, I’m previewing* a book with a provocative title. And once again, the book in question is more nuanced than its title might cause one to suspect at first glance. Like the book F*cked (which I previewed last June), it drops the f-bomb in the title—while also censoring it....
The inquisitive one was running on a forest path. The path took a sharp turn. So the inquisitive one also took a sharp turn. And then suddenly, the inquisitive one encountered, standing directly in the path, a dog dressed like Yoda! A blanket, with pink and gray plaid stripes, had been wrapped exquisitely around the dog, who seemed to be...
In what ways has society changed since the Stone Age, and in what ways is it exactly the same? The protagonist of the novel Convenience Store Woman by Sayaka Murata confronts this question upon meeting a dissatisfied young man. The young man believes that society is—and always has been—deeply flawed: “Nothing’s changed since the Stone Age. It’s just that nobody...
Imagine yourself descending some stairs, about to arrive at the party pictured here. How do you feel? Nervous and self-conscious? Excited and energetic? Bored and indifferent? Angry and argumentative? Do you feel that you are equipped with the social skills and social knowledge you need to navigate this event in a way you would consider successful? Convenience Store Woman by...
After years of floundering through life, she finally finds herself! She figures out exactly who she is . . . upon being hired as a convenience store worker. At last, to her relief, there is a place on earth where she is needed, where she understands what to do in every situation that arises. Whereas in her personal life she...
Hair styling. Nail painting. Clothes and accessories shopping. Laser treatments. Balancing on heels. Cosmetic surgery. Shaving. Tanning. Dermal fillers. Walking up stairs in a long skirt without tripping. Dieting. Make-up application. Botox. Walking down stairs in a short skirt without flashing anyone. The list of things people do for beauty goes on and on. In the book Perfect Me, Heather...
I don’t often buy books without consulting online reviews or a friend. When I do, it feels like I have a delicious secret. Having confronted no direct evidence that another human had encountered the book Perfect Me by Heather Widdows, I felt like a voyager alone, making a profound discovery that I hoped to one day share with the folks...
So I did it—just couldn’t help it!—I judged a book by its cover and title and nothing else. An ad in a magazine caught my eye. The cover was a bold splash of color, which on closer inspection turned out to be face paint on a face. The title was Perfect Me: Beauty as an Ethical Ideal. I was intrigued....
I read a lovely, quaint poem that I’d like to share with you today. It has something valuable to say about love. It’s short. I’d print it here if it weren’t for copyright law. Instead, I invite you to do a search for the poem Who’s Who by W.H. Auden. Then read the text on whatever site pops up. Now,...
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Your Duck Is My Duck Deborah Eisenberg
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A Mind Unraveled Kurt Eichenwald
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The Body Keeps the Score Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.
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Dare to Lead Brené Brown
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Almost Everything Anne Lamott
Born to Run Christopher McDougall, Bruce Springsteen
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Why Buddhism Is True Robert Wright
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